After having been in and out of a decent number of relationships over the past few years, after breaking a few hearts, after having my heart broken and after growing with such experiences, I am finally able get down to my definition of what love is actually all about.
There is a really fine line between companionship and love. Should my woman or I not be able to feel for any of the points in my list below, I know there is no love.
1. You will never demand him/her to do things for you. 2. You will never speak ill of him/her in his/her absence. 3. You will always be in a good mood whenever together. 4. You will love and accept his/her flaws without wishing he/she'd change. 5. The thought of losing him/her kills you. 6. You will always feel appreciated, blessed and in awe at his/her thoughtful gestures, no matter how often you get them. 7. You will never be jealous of his/her success and happiness. 8. You love spending time with him/her, no matter how long. 9. His/Her feelings will always matter more than your own. 10. You will never think that there will be someone better out there, for he/she will always be the best.
These are also exactly all the reasons of how I feel for Wendy...
For you curious cats out there who is worried for me, "THANK YOU!" I am doing well in my work. I'm much more 'stable' now but sadly... some things do happen when you least expected and somewhat my health is not in a desirable state. Hopefully I'll be fine... =]
I've come to much terms and compromise with Wendy as to the whole break-up and what is not to be done or said that may make this relationship worst. I sincerely want her back for more then anything in the World simply because my love for her has no limits and bounds; she is my other half, soul-mate and the 'One'. Gotta have faith ya!
Dance tomorrow should be fun... Nitez People!
D^Boy aka HiiRaGi
A Life dedicated to the 'F4' family, EGUES, Adorhythmatics & my Girl